Nightlife is such an important element of any city's identity. In some places that I have visited, the atmosphere of the best restaurants and bars is a sharp contrast to daily life. This new perspective really helps to give me a more well-rounded opinion of the city. Unfortunately, I don't always get the chance to go out much because I am usually traveling on my own. So, whenever local staff members offer to take me somewhere, I always jump at the opportunity.
Some of my best memories from this year involve nights out with the staff. In Casablanca, I discovered a completely different side of the city when a couple people took me out for my last night. Daily life in Casablanca felt chaotic and even dangerous, but the nightclub we visited felt like an upscale bar in South Beach. I couldn't have been more pleasantly surprised.
Mexico and South Africa, on the other hand, offered nightlife that was exactly what I would have imagined. In Merida, the city center was filled with people (mostly families) - eating carnivalesque food, buying giant balloons for their kids, and enjoying simple food at local bars that had probably been family-owned for generations. Johannesburg (particularly Rosebank) offered its "best" bars/restaurants in a shopping mall. The nightclub I visited (Maxi's) was filled with a very diverse crowd - smoking cigars and dancing to a live african band.
I was excited when one of the girls in Amman asked what I was doing after work on Tuesday. We started the evening by exploring the historic sites at night. While we were walking around near the Roman Amphitheater, one of the security guards asked me where I was from. Normally I say that I'm Canadian or Swiss to avoid any anti-American rhetoric, but I had to be honest since I was around two people who actually know my background.
The guard started telling me a little about Amman's history and then took me to his friend's antique shop (of course) to see if anything appealed to me. I looked around politely for a couple minutes without picking up a single item because I didn't want to show particular interest in anything! I think it's funny that anywhere I go, people assume that Americans will buy whatever junk you show to them.
We continued walking through the downtown area a bit more and passed lots of small shops selling mostly low-quality clothing, shoes, and bags. I couldn't believe how busy the city was at 11pm on a random Tuesday night. We eventually made it up to Rainbow Street (a popular area for outdoor bars and cafes) and sat at one of the outdoor tables of a restaurant for some fresh juice.
Most people were just sitting quietly at the tables, flanked by hookah pipes (aka: hubbly bubbly) and talking to each other only occasionally. The scene was laid-back and quiet...similar to what I have experienced in other Middle Eastern cities and completely different from bars in Europe or North America, where everyone is drunk and yelling just to hear each other.
The waiter laid out plates of Arabic desserts on our table, which are sickly sweet, but so good. My favorite is called Awamat, which is basically a tiny ball of deep fried dough...crunchy on the outside and filled with a doughy, syrup-filled center. I literally kept saying: "ok, this is my last one." So much for all my hours in the gym this week...
Some of my best memories from this year involve nights out with the staff. In Casablanca, I discovered a completely different side of the city when a couple people took me out for my last night. Daily life in Casablanca felt chaotic and even dangerous, but the nightclub we visited felt like an upscale bar in South Beach. I couldn't have been more pleasantly surprised.
Mexico and South Africa, on the other hand, offered nightlife that was exactly what I would have imagined. In Merida, the city center was filled with people (mostly families) - eating carnivalesque food, buying giant balloons for their kids, and enjoying simple food at local bars that had probably been family-owned for generations. Johannesburg (particularly Rosebank) offered its "best" bars/restaurants in a shopping mall. The nightclub I visited (Maxi's) was filled with a very diverse crowd - smoking cigars and dancing to a live african band.
I was excited when one of the girls in Amman asked what I was doing after work on Tuesday. We started the evening by exploring the historic sites at night. While we were walking around near the Roman Amphitheater, one of the security guards asked me where I was from. Normally I say that I'm Canadian or Swiss to avoid any anti-American rhetoric, but I had to be honest since I was around two people who actually know my background.
The guard started telling me a little about Amman's history and then took me to his friend's antique shop (of course) to see if anything appealed to me. I looked around politely for a couple minutes without picking up a single item because I didn't want to show particular interest in anything! I think it's funny that anywhere I go, people assume that Americans will buy whatever junk you show to them.
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Here we are, showing off our "guns" in downtown Amman! |
We continued walking through the downtown area a bit more and passed lots of small shops selling mostly low-quality clothing, shoes, and bags. I couldn't believe how busy the city was at 11pm on a random Tuesday night. We eventually made it up to Rainbow Street (a popular area for outdoor bars and cafes) and sat at one of the outdoor tables of a restaurant for some fresh juice.
Most people were just sitting quietly at the tables, flanked by hookah pipes (aka: hubbly bubbly) and talking to each other only occasionally. The scene was laid-back and quiet...similar to what I have experienced in other Middle Eastern cities and completely different from bars in Europe or North America, where everyone is drunk and yelling just to hear each other.
The waiter laid out plates of Arabic desserts on our table, which are sickly sweet, but so good. My favorite is called Awamat, which is basically a tiny ball of deep fried dough...crunchy on the outside and filled with a doughy, syrup-filled center. I literally kept saying: "ok, this is my last one." So much for all my hours in the gym this week...
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Here's what Awamat look like. |
The next morning, I was dragging a little because of insufficient sleep but happy that I had a chance to go out the night before. As I was checking my e-mail and easing into the day, my main contact person peeked his head into my office and asked: "What are you doing tonight?"
I told him that I had no plans and he invited me to a home-cooked Iftar dinner at his home. My entire mind was immediately filled with fear. I hate being invited to dinner because it doesn't give me any element of food choice. As an extremely picky eater, this is dangerous when I also have to balance not offending the host, who is rightfully proud of the food that they have made.
There has been more than one occasion where I have had to create a totally awkward moment by honestly admitting that I can't eat the food that has been presented to me because it contained one of my "no way" ingredients (mustard, mayonnaise, ketchup, cream, and/or italian style tomato sauce).
I literally spent half the day thinking about the foods that I have seen at other Iftar buffets and calculating my chances of disaster. Fortunately, I couldn't think of any main courses that would be off-limits. My fingers were crossed.
When I arrived, I felt a little awkward at first because I don't often eat dinner with families that I have never met - especially in their homes. We just started talking about all sorts of random things and before I knew it, the food was about to be unveiled. To my relief, everything on the table was edible: hummus and falafel, some sort of green bean and beef salad, and lamb shank with rice and almonds. I could tell that the lamb was marinated in a yogurt, but I could tolerate that.
They literally piled the food on my plate as if I hadn't eaten in weeks and I had to constantly say: "oh, that's more than enough!" The wife had also made this rich sauce for the meat, which was a little too much to handle. Unfortunately, she noticed when I put only a small amount on the meat and commented: "Oh, you don't like the sauce? That's ok...I know it is probably not popular for people who aren't used to our food."
I responded, "no, I love it!" and reluctantly added another spoonful. I guess all mothers are the same when it comes to feeding people. After all the excessive guilt eating, I was very full but also proud of myself for trying to eat all that was served to me.
After dinner, we went out to the balcony for some tea and more conversation. Even though I'm never a big fan of "homey" things, it really was nice to experience such an authentic family atmosphere during Ramadan. I figured it was my decision when to call it quits, so I looked at my watch around 11pm and said that I should probably get back to the hotel.
"Oh, we haven't had dessert yet!" (of course we were having dessert...)
Before I knew it, I could hear the bubbles of something deep frying in the kitchen. A few minutes later, I was presented with katayef, which as basically pancakes that were soaked in syrup, stuffed with cheese or walnuts, deep fried, and covered in more syrup. Clearly, another healthy way for me to end my day.
I was asked which one I preferred and I had to admit that I was given two walnut ones, which were "very good". Well, apparently this was unacceptable because I was forcefully given a THIRD piece to try the cheese version. By this point, I just wanted to explode. Yes, they were good, but I just cannot eat this much rich food in one day.
I literally spent half the day thinking about the foods that I have seen at other Iftar buffets and calculating my chances of disaster. Fortunately, I couldn't think of any main courses that would be off-limits. My fingers were crossed.
When I arrived, I felt a little awkward at first because I don't often eat dinner with families that I have never met - especially in their homes. We just started talking about all sorts of random things and before I knew it, the food was about to be unveiled. To my relief, everything on the table was edible: hummus and falafel, some sort of green bean and beef salad, and lamb shank with rice and almonds. I could tell that the lamb was marinated in a yogurt, but I could tolerate that.
They literally piled the food on my plate as if I hadn't eaten in weeks and I had to constantly say: "oh, that's more than enough!" The wife had also made this rich sauce for the meat, which was a little too much to handle. Unfortunately, she noticed when I put only a small amount on the meat and commented: "Oh, you don't like the sauce? That's ok...I know it is probably not popular for people who aren't used to our food."
I responded, "no, I love it!" and reluctantly added another spoonful. I guess all mothers are the same when it comes to feeding people. After all the excessive guilt eating, I was very full but also proud of myself for trying to eat all that was served to me.
After dinner, we went out to the balcony for some tea and more conversation. Even though I'm never a big fan of "homey" things, it really was nice to experience such an authentic family atmosphere during Ramadan. I figured it was my decision when to call it quits, so I looked at my watch around 11pm and said that I should probably get back to the hotel.
"Oh, we haven't had dessert yet!" (of course we were having dessert...)
Before I knew it, I could hear the bubbles of something deep frying in the kitchen. A few minutes later, I was presented with katayef, which as basically pancakes that were soaked in syrup, stuffed with cheese or walnuts, deep fried, and covered in more syrup. Clearly, another healthy way for me to end my day.
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Katayef - stuffed with either walnuts or cheese |
In retrospect, the entire night was really a great experience. I am appreciative, not only of the invitation, but also to the wife of my contact for cooking such an elaborate meal. I tasted food that I never ate before (and may never eat again), and I learned more about family life in Amman during Ramadan.
As I try to categorize nightlife in Amman, it definitely can be grouped with the other cities that were not so surprising to me. I expected a very low-key nightlife and a family-centric culture. Jordan is more liberal than other Middle Eastern cultures, but it is not to the extreme where people are getting drunk in traditional western bars and abandoning their religious traditions. It's not a city where I could ever see myself living but it was a great place to spend two weeks.